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Vivi’s Lust and Love: It Doesn’t Always Take Two to Tango
Discusses pros of masturbation for people who don’t belong to a religious sect that dictates it is sinful
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Vivi’s Lust and Love: Multiple Male Orgasms (MMO) – Orgasm and Ejaculation ARE Different!
It isn’t just the stuff of legends, gentlemen – you could drop the female envy and experience more than one orgasm per session if you so desired. How? There are Tantric, Taoist, and Key Sound practices, but I’ll explain the two most popular techniques here. The first is through mastering Kegel exercises, in which a ...
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Vivi’s Lust and Love: Does Size Matter?
Women think we’ve got the insecurity market cornered, but when it comes to size, men seem to be just as crazy. Thanks to the last few decades of pornography, men have gotten the idea that in order to satisfy your partner you need to have an enormous penis. Gentlemen, this is silly.
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Vivi’s Lust and Love: The Clitoral Truth
There has been a huge amount of debate over the female orgasm. Whereas men tend to have only one type, women’s climax comes in two different varieties: vaginal and clitoral. This can create a lot of performance anxiety for men, and a lot of stupid misconceptions too. Namely, that the clitoral orgasm is “inferior” to ...
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Vivi’s Lust and Love
There’s no such thing as “Popping your Cherry” For years ladies have labored under the myth that virginity is something we lose. This “barrier,” the hymen, keeps us pure and virginal until the day we give up, give in, and let a man “pop our cherry.” Well fear not, my lovelies. Because it’s a total ...
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Vivi’s Love and Lust: Craving A Little More
The latest from the Corvallis Advocate sex column. This week in Vivi’s Love and Lust: Craving A Little More
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Vivi’s Lust & Love: No Blow Zone
Q: Dear Vivi, I enjoy getting blowjobs, but my girlfriend doesn’t like to give them. Is there anything that I can do to encourage her to give more head? – No Blow Zone A: My question to you is have you asked her why she doesn’t enjoy giving blow jobs? For many women, taste is ...
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Vivi’s Lust & Love: Permanent Protect Please
Q: Dear Vivi, My husband and I are happily married, and have two beautiful children. We don’t want to have another child, and we were wondering if there are any other methods of birth control besides hormonal treatments or tubal ligation. – Permanent Protection Please A: It’s a big decision to not have any more ...
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No Luck With Love
Q: Dear Vivi, I have never had much luck with relationships. No matter what I do, they always seem to go downhill. I can’t figure out what I’m doing wrong, do you have any advice? – No Luck With Love A: The two things that I believe are the most important in any relationship are ...
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Vivi’s Lust & Love: To Tie Or Not To Tie
Q: Dear Vivi, My boyfriend wants to try BDSM, but I’m not sure how I feel about it. What should I do? – To Tie Or Not To Tie A: Typically, BDSM is perceived as using whips and tying your partner up; as wearing leather and either being hurt or doing the hurting. However, there ...
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Vivian’s Lust & Love
Our resident sex columnist takes on teen abstinence.